YOU can be a SEXUAL GODDESS

There are women who are great in bed, and then there are sex goddesses—chicks who not only have a stash of killer seduction tricks but whose finely tuned sack skills push men over the edge. In addition, they’ve mastered an enthusiastic, almost-anything-goes attitude and know how to make any guy feel like a great lover. Most important, they do all this without compromising their own pleasure. As for becoming a bona fide sex goddess yourself, integrate these scorching tips (gleaned from top sex experts) into your repertoire and you’ll attain that supreme status, too.

Goddess Secret 1: Start preplay in the AM.

Bliss masters plant the seed of desire early so it has a chance to grow all day. “When you’re planning on having a hot night, begin foreplay in the morning,” says Olivia St. Claire, author of 302 Advanced Techniques for Driving a Man Wild in Bed. Tricks that fuel his lust: Wedge a naughty note under his windshield wiper or give him a deep kiss before scooting off to work. As for getting in a frisky frame of mind yourself, mentally replay a sexy memory or fantasy when you have some downtime.

Goddess Secret 2: Find erotic inspiration everywhere.

Say you’re putting on a pair of heels for a date and you realize they make your legs look ridiculously hot. Tap into that later and keep your stilettos on in the sack. Or if you suddenly notice how plush your man’s hall carpet is, make a mental note to suggest getting it on there one night soon. “Great lovers zone in on the passion potential in any everyday situation,” says California sex therapist Linda DeVillers, PhD. Throughout the day, put your senses on high alert—savor delicious smells and tastes, sexy sights, feel-good fabrics, and sensual music. It’ll help you develop sex goddess-grade carnal spontaneity.

Goddess Secret 3: Coax a man out of his carnal safe zone.

Men tend to fall into position ruts because they’re focused on climaxing. “He’ll opt for the tried-and-true move he knows will get him off,” explains Ava Cadell, PhD, author of Pocket Idiot’s Guide to Oral Sex. “But he’ll be glad if you push him to try new stuff.” After all, that’s what gifted sex partners do. Figure out what else he’ll enjoy based on his go-to position. Example: Doggie-style dudes may also love reverse cowgirl because of the similar angle.

Goddess Secret 4: Give hot teases.

Cop this superior seductress technique: Simulate sex during foreplay. Rhythmically suck his fingers or slide his hand back and forth between your breasts. “Acting out a preview boosts arousal because it’s so close to intercourse,” says Barbara Keesling, PhD, author of The Good Girl’s Guide to Bad Girl Sex.

Goddess Secret 5: Step on the brakes—twice.

The harder it is to get something, the more you usually want it, right? Lust lesson: “Delayed gratification builds physical tension and emotional excitement,” says St. Claire. For instance, lick his penis, then stop and run your fingers over his chest. Next, take him entirely into your mouth for a few moments before stopping again. Finally, give him full-on oral action. Slowing down two times will give a hotter payoff than being unbridled off the bat. Do this during intercourse, too.