The repairman
This works equally well with the plumber, electrician, etc. You choose! Your partner, a jack of all trades, rings the bell. You greet this manly figure in your new satin nightdress and let him in. You flirt a bit while he rummages through his toolbox. Ideally, draw this part out for a while. Then, when your repairman actually starts to 'repair' something, you lean over him, brushing past him with the narrowest of margins... an essential step for increasing levels of arousal.
Why's it so hot?
The surprise, unexpected encounter. It's an "I like you, you like me, let's get on with it" kind of situation. Often, this experience turns out to be much more exciting in role playing situations than in real life!
The hitch hiker
You could try this out for real if you have a car and know of a calm, isolated place where your partner can pull over by the side of the road - we didn't tell you to do that though! Just make sure you're wearing a skirt (it's easier to get down to business in) and it's much more discreet.
If you haven't got a car - take a taxi. Your boyfriend can take a taxi, "spot" you on the way and ask the cab driver to stop! Pretend you're old acquaintances that haven't seen each other in a while... you can't go all the way but you can get things started.
Why's it so hot?
In scenario 1, it's the instantaneous sex; the promiscuity and the fact of being in a tight, enclosed space that immediately makes it feel hot. You could either play the role of the innocent hitchhiker whom the driver takes a liking for, or the horny hitchhiker who can't keep her hands off the driver!
In scenario 2, acting like you've only just met up again in front of a stranger can add authenticity to your pretend affair. Snogging in the back seat will give you all the build up you need to get seriously sexy when you get home
The teacher and the pupil
This is one of the classics. Pretend you're in a class that gets out of hand... you're dressed in school uniform and your man is the older, sexy teacher. It's often very exciting because a lot of young girls start out falling for and fantasising about a teacher. But you can also reverse the roles and play the strict teacher, seduced by her young student.
Why's it so hot?
You can learn pretty much anything in class: piano, maths, French, swimming… so why not sex?! And if you work on the assumption that "the pupil" has no sexual experience and is discovering everything for the first time, it can be even more fun!
TIPS TO GET STARTED
1 - Prepare your scenario
To indulge in a role playing game, you might decide to plan the scenario down to the finest details. By knowing your role, you may feel surer of yourself. You might even want to prepare some dialogue in advance.
2 - Improvise
Some people prefer to make up a whole storyline but with a bit of practise, you'll feel freer and more comfortable straying from what you had initially planned.
3 - Discuss things beforehand
Talk with your partner about the things you're not keen on. It's just a game; you should never feel manipulated or forced into doing something you're not comfortable with.
4 - Find a compromise
Which game should you choose? One that appeals to both of you. That won't necessarily be easy since people don't all have the same erotic imagination. Ideally, try to find a game that turns you both on.
5 - Pay attention to your partner's desires
The things your partner fantasises or dreams about could be the smallest of details that aren't important for you but are essential for him.
6 - Don't put pressure on yourself
Never think that you have to be at the top of your game sexually. The aim is to have some fun together.
7 - Don't spread yourself too thinly
You don't have to try out all the games. If you find one that you both really like, you can repeat it again and again with all sorts of variations.
8 - Consider using accessories and props
Go all out with your role playing and wear relevant items of clothing, go to specific places, put up appropriate decorations, etc. But you could also keep things simple and role play at home in your usual clothes. What counts is stimulating your imagination. To do that, accessories can be useful but not essential!
9 - Agree on your sexy talk
You want to hear him tell you he's going to tear off your shirt and instead he says he's going to rip open your blouse... blouse?! Nothing ruins a mood like an unsexy sentence. Agree on banned, unsexy words in advance. If you hate the sound of "gentle, tender kisses" and you'd rather be "gorged on and ravished" then now is the time to say so.
10 - Have a safe word
No matter what game you're playing, you always need to have an agreed safe word. Like an emergency stop button this will bring the game to an abrupt halt whenever you need. Make sure it's a word you wouldn't commonly use. 'BAKED BEANS', 'BINGO', or 'MARGARET THATCHER' - anything that kills the mood is perfect.
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